Freshers Fair 2012

Thanks to all those who came to our Freshers Fair stall!
We had an amazing turn out and everyone had loads of fun, especially Zanna Joyce (Welfare Rep) and Scott Daniels (Events/Socials Rep) as pictured above! :D

Hello and Welcome to all new and returning students!

Hello and Welcome to all new and returning students!

We are Reading University's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Group. We work to create a social place for people that define as LGBT within the University and in the local community. We offer support, advice and also campaign and work for the progression of the rights of LGBT people. We do this through raising awareness or stopping harassment within the university and the wider community. We have a really proactive and sociable team dedicated to getting as many people involved as possible.
We've got loads of great events coming up this term:

Socials

Welcome Get- Together
3pm Sunday 14th October
This will be a chance to get to know knew people and catch up with others on campus. There'll be games, refreshments and great laughs!!

Rainbow Rubix Cube Night Out
8pm Thursday 18th October
We will be having our first night out of the year, kicking off at Park Bar on campus at 8pm then heading on to The Wynford Arms, The Rising Sun, and finally Propaganda for those that fancy it. Come in rainbow colours and clothes that you don't mind swapping!

Meal at Zizi's
Tuesday 30th October

Coffee Hours

Starting from Thursday 18th October we will be running coffee hours every Monday and Thursday from 1-2pm in The Lounge, behind the Students Union building. These are a great opportunity to meet and chat with other LGBT students. They are informal events so feel free to bring your lunch with you and any games you’d like to play. There'll be a different activity every Thursday coffee hour.

Student Feedback Session
Thursday 18th October
This will be a chance to let the committee know what you would like the LGBT Group to do and what you are passionate about changing.

Coming Out Workshop

and viewing of Reading LGBT Group "It Gets Better" video
Thursday 25th October

International Day against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia

Hello everyone, for those of you who don’t know me, my name is Ken Smailes and I am the outgoing President of RUSU’s LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans) Liberation Group and the RUSU LGBT Part Time Officer.

Today is an extremely important day for the LGBT community globally; it is the International Day against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia or simply IDAHO for short. This day is celebrated every year on May 17^th to highlight that the unfair treatment of the LGBT community still happens around the world and still within the UK. It is a day for the LGBT community globally, to join together with the rest of the world and stand up against homophobia, biphobia and transphobia.

To put the rights of the LGBT community into context, I want to give you a brief history lesson. In 1957 in the UK, Lord Wolfenden, who at the time was the vice chancellor of the University of Reading, wrote a report that called on the removal of homosexuality as an illegal act. It was with this report and continued pressure on the government that homosexuality finally became legal in the UK in 1967. Ever since 1967 the LGBT community in the UK has been slowly receiving more and more rights in their fight for equality. It was only in 2002 that LGBT couples, or single LGBT individuals were given equal adoption rights. Now it looks increasingly more likely that same sex couples will be able to marry. Yet these rights that the LGBT community have in the UK are not universal and even in the USA, in some states, LGBT people can still be removed from their jobs for simply defining as a different sexuality. Equality for the LGBT community has not been achieved in the UK or worldwide.

Unfortunately instances of homophobia, biphobia and transphobia are also still very real within the UK and the wider world. This unfair treatment of the LGBT community can come in many forms, whether it is physical harassment, murder, derogatory use of the word ‘gay’ or many other things, for many individuals it is all still too real an occurrence. I was shown this video by a member of the LGBT group recently and it really put the problem of homophobia into context for me:

Today is however a day to create change!

Yes homophobia, biphobia and transphobia is still a very real part of the LGBT communities life but we can all put an end to this, by simply standing up for the equal treatment of everyone. No one deserves to be treated differently just because they are of a different sexuality or gender or sexual orientation. Everyone is equal and we should show this through our actions.

Unfair treatment of anyone whether they are of a different race, gender, sexuality etc doesn’t have a place on our campus or within our community and let’s demonstrate this through our actions.

Ken Smailes
RUSU LGBT President and RUSU LGBT Part Time Officer

Ken Smailes and Sophie Longley

NUS LGBT Conference 2012

NUS Student conference this year was amazing. It was my first time going to a conference, let alone voting on important issues that would affect all LGBT students. At first, it was hard to get to grips with how to vote on the motions; but it got easier as the day progressed. Attending this conference has brought to light just how much students from universities all over the UK care about LGBT issues. What’s more, it also emphasised the amount of work NUS has done over the years. The workshops throughout the weekend were very useful. I attended a workshop about producing an effective campaign which demonstrated just how much hard work goes in to promoting LGBT issues. Other workshops I participated in were ‘Faith and Sexuality’ and ‘LGBT in Sport’. The discussions in the ‘Faith and Sexuality’ workshop were extremely thought-provoking. It showed that identifying as LGBT does not mean the loss of religious beliefs. It also gave us some ideas on how to unite our LGBT group with some of Reading University’s religious societies. ‘LGBT in Sport’ was a great discussion to attend as it focused on the difficulties some LGBT people have within the sporting world. What was most interesting were the problems transgendered people faced in relation to single sex sports teams and changing rooms. The highlight of the trip was the awards dinner where our very own LGBT group came top 5 in ‘most developed’, ‘best campaign’ and ‘best LGBT Officer/President’. Next year, we’ll win them all! 



Sophie x

Ken Smailes

NUS LGBT Conference 2012

NUS LGBT Conference, a weekend of drama, policy, motions, Manchester nightlife and development of LGBT rights. I can honestly say I have never been to such an encouraging and thought provoking conference. The Reading University delegation decided that we would all write a blog/report so that you, the society can see how we voted on your behave and to encourage you to get involved in the LGBT movement and the fight for ever increasing rights.

Over the weekend there a number of different workshops that I attended, the most interesting and important to me was one titled ‘faith and sexuality, a dialogue’. This workshop had a lot of relevance to me as I grew up in a very Christian family and have always found the relationship between faith and sexuality particularly difficult to negotiate. The workshop gave advice on how to workshops to have an open and frank discussion about how sexuality and different faiths can work together; you don’t just have to have one or another. It was also really interesting to see how many people at conference both defined as LGBT and as with faith, which was encouraging.

The weekend was mainly filled with motion debate; these motions go into NUS LGBT policy and dictate how the campaign is run over the next year. I am happy to say that the majority of policy passed was brilliant, it included motions to encourage more work on helping trans people parent, sexual health, more equal representation of bisexual people and continuation of the campaign on ending the blood donation bad for men who sleep with men. The motion that did seem to be most controversial was that including Harry Potter and Dumbledore as a gay figure, this definitely brought some strong opinions from the conference floor. All these motions and discussion was really heartening but did make me want to stay on another year to be able to work on these new campaigns!

Lastly the highlight of the weekend for me had to be the NUS LGBT awards and Gala Dinner which celebrated 40 years of the NUS LGBT campaign. There were a total of six awards up for grabs and Reading University Student Union LGBT was eligible for 5 of these. I am very proud to say that we were shortlisted for three of them, which means we were in the top five for these categories out of nearly 100 institutions!! These were Campaign of the Year, Society Development Award and LGBT Higher Education Student of the Year. To get this amount of shortlists was incredible; it is testament to the work of the society, the amazing people in it and the lengths we have all come. You should all feel so proud of yourself and I know we are only going to get better year on year.

Ken Smailes

LGBT President and RUSU LGBT Student Officer

Ben Cohen - With Ken Smailes, Karl Hobley and Ben Rider

Manchester NUS LGBT Conference 2012

I had an amazing weekend at the conference! It was really interesting to find out about what the national committee were doing and had planned for the year ahead. Their priority campaigns related to LGBT issues in sport and religion and bullying of LGBT people at school. These were all campaigns that I planned to focus on at Reading next year so it was great to see that NUS was already a step ahead and that there would be support to implement the campaigns I am passionate about.

 The conference workshops gave me a great opportunity to learn about how to carry out campaigns and how to start the planning process.  I also got to go to a workshop on bullying at schools which was both very interesting and inspiring. Apart from the workshops I also learnt lots from the people that I talked to over the weekend. Most importantly I got to talk to lots of Trans students and find out about the issues that they face at university. This was great as I had never had the chance to talk to a Trans student at Reading.

The motions debates in which we, as delegates from our different universities, got to vote on were a bit of a mixed bag. Most of the ideas that people proposed for the NUS LGBT committee to focus on in the coming year were very significant and useful, in my opinion. Some, on the other hand, were not so relevant, most notably a “Gay Dumbledore” campaign idea to raise awareness of the Harry Potter character as a homosexual in literature. The adding of “Parts” and “Amendments” to pointless campaigns, such as this, was quite infuriating!

The Saturday night Gala dinner was brilliant. Listening to the rugby star Ben Cohen give a speech and talk about his work on bullying in schools was fascinating and getting a picture with him was undoubtedly also a highlight of the evening! The best part, however, was being shortlisted for 3 awards. We gasped when the first one was announced and were so shocked to find out we were in two of the other lists! So well done to everybody who contributed to getting these amazing tokens of achievement and especially to Ken for his tireless work!

The nights out were awesome! I must say Manchester’s gay nightlife is second to none. With a whole street and surrounding area packed with bars and clubs it’s a wonder why anyone would go anywhere else! Friday night was hilarious with my highlight being chasing after Ken as he was being dragged into Cruise 101. Saturday night was even better and I got to chat to loads of new people and tell all the Leeds LGBT how much I love them!

The conference weekend was loads of fun and I can’t wait to go again next year!

Ben Rider

Societies' Ball

Hello everyone, I hope you are all having a fantastic Easter break before exams all start in Summer Term. I just wanted update you about the LGBT being welcomed at the Societies' Ball at the end of last term (15th March).

In previous years while I've been attending UoR the LGBT has been a fully run society like any of the other societies, however for the past couple of years RUSU has reorganised and changed it into a Liberation & Representation Group. So normally the LGBT would not have been considered for any awards, however on this occasion RUSU felt that the LGBT group deserved a special mention because of the hard work done by all of the LGBT group this year including the committee, its members and most importantly Ken Smailes, the LGBT President and RUSU Part-Time Officer.

Karl Hobley, RUSU President gave the LGBT a special mention on behalf of Steph Johnson, Vice President for Welfare & Representation and mentioned the significant turnaround that the LGBT has made this year with events such as:

• Antidote, LGBT's first union social
• LGBT History Month
• Film showings of LGBT films including Anne Lister and Milk
• Raising awareness and getting people talking about Stonewall's 'Some People Are Gay, Get Over It!' campaign
• The very popular and well attended marriage legalisation debate (which was also recorded by RU:ON)
• Visiting Amersham & Wycombe College for a Q&A to students on LGBT issues
• Public lectures by staff on LGBT history
• Weekly coffee/lunch hour
• Buddy scheme
• Staff training on LGBT
• Trip to National Student Pride at Brighton
• And much more

Ken was asked to give a short speech on stage and congratulated the members of the LGBT for getting involved and bringing the group back to life so that the LGBT reflects and responds to the issues of LGBT students. 

The Ball was an brilliant night with a champagne reception, gorgeous meal, drinks, awards ceremony with performances from societies such as Singer Songwriters, Bellydance and Drama, and also the after-party in Cafe Mondial. The most awards for any society went to St John's Ambulance which Ken has also been a highly active committee member of this academic year.

I would like to personally say thank you to everyone who has taken part this year and contributed to the events we have held and particularly to Ken who has made a massive change to the LGBT and organised some fantastic events and most definitely started the ball rolling again for next academic year to take over.

There are more events planned for the Summer Term including a trip to London in Week 1, check out the Events on the bottom of the page for more information and links to Facebook.

-- Robert Cathles, Welfare & Communications Officer

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Conference season is on us once again and this year we are hoping to take a full delegation of five to Manchester for NUS LGBT Conference 2012. There are 2 Open Places, which anyone can fill, 1 Women's Place, 1 BME Place, for a black or ethnic minority and 1 Trans Place. All positions are open to those that self define as being part of that community and anyone can run for the Open Places.

This year Conference will be from 30th March to 1st April, so during the Easter holiday and RUSU will cover costs.

If you are interested please email your nomination (name and position for which you wish to run) to lgbt@rusu.co.uk. You will need to prepare a 1 minute speech to be delivered in Coffee Hour (1300-1400) on Monday 5th March. If you can't make it to this time, someone will be able to read it out on your behalf.

For more information please see http://www.nusconnect.org.uk/ents/event/293/ and if you have any questions please email lgbt@rusu.co.uk.

Student Pride Trip

Hi Folks,

About time I dipped my toe into this blogging malarkey.

Last weekend I took a group of 14 down to Brighton for National Student Pride, a fantastic event that is held every year at the end of February or the beginning of March. We took a minibus down and made it in time for a meal before heading out to the ‘Pre-Pride Party,’ a wonderful welcome to Brighton! On Saturday 25^th February, there was the main event, with a stalls and job fair giving out loads of freebies (got more than my fair share of free condoms I can tell you), a panel debate with a very interesting mix of celebrities, a question and answer session with the cast of My Transexual Summer and live music.

Peter Tatchell (LGBT rights campaigner), Dan Sells (from the Feeling), John Amaechi (psychologist and former NBA player), Steven Davies (England international Cricketer), James Wharton (openly gay soldier), Jane Hill (BBC news icon) and Sophie Ward (actress) discussed issues ranging from gay marriage and homophobia in sport to trans representation and women in business. Really interesting and easily the best panel in the last three years that I have been.

I even managed to catch some of the rugby as well, so I was kept happy. Until Williams’ try of course.

Anyway… The event culminated in a great big party in the Brighton Dome Corn Exchange and much fun was had by all. By the time we all trooped onto the minibus on Sunday afternoon we were more than a little tired. I encourage you to get involved with the LGBT here at Reading and make sure you get on the trip to Student Pride next year!

David

Hello Everyone


This week I was lucky enough to be able to take some of the LGBT committee and Emily Collins, a member of RUSU staff over to Amersham and High Wycombe College for a brilliant event that they were putting on. The college as part of it's LGBT History Month Events organised a question and answer/debate on sexuality and everything it involved and we had been invited along to be the panel receiving these questions.


We had been warned that the students were possibly a little challenging and their questions proved to be just that. After working our way through the obvious questions relating to coming out, when we knew we were homosexual etc, we were then asked what are religion was. This was then followed by a statement along the lines, don't you know that your sexuality is condemning the world.The gentlemen that aired this view was from a very religious background and had been taught to believe this and it was truly brilliant to be able to question is reasoning for thinking this and his perception of sexuality. Another interesting and thought provoking point was whether it was right to bring up a child in a same sex relationship when they are undoubtedly going to be bullied at some point due to their parents sexuality. This is a very valid question and is very personal to a lot of the LGBT community, but as long as they are brought up in a loving and caring family surely that is all they need!

One of the main points that the students seemed to really get out of the event was that sexuality is not a choice, it is who you are and it is ok whatever you define as! There is nothing wrong with it. It was a brilliant and really encouraging event and really made a lot of people question their views on sexuality.

HI Everyone


So it has been a busy old week in Reading University LGBT! We are currently looking for a new LGBT officer, I will be stepping down from my position in the Summer Term and need someone to take over the role. The other day we were lucky enough to have a visit from Alan Bailey one of the co-presidents of NUS LGBT and he gave some much needed advice to hopeful candidates. He is also working with us at the moment to see whether we can provide some diversity and equality training to members of University Staff, which is very exciting.

If anyone is interested in going forward for the role of LGBT officer then you need to apply ASAP as it all closes on Monday 31st of Jan. You can not apply if your a final year and you need to define as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Trans. Here is the link with all the info:

http://www.rusu.co.uk/campaignsanddemocracy/democracy/lib_and_rep_groups/

Trust me it is a brilliant and worthwhile role!

Hi Everyone!


Welcome to the Reading University LGBT Blog and my first ever post! Through this blog we hope to keep you all update with the happenings of Reading University LGBT and the happenings of the committee.

Can I just say the blog is also a brilliant way to keep up to dates with the events we are putting on, if you scroll to the bottom of this page there is a google calender that has all the information you will ever need.

One of the main things I have been working on over the holidays is LGBT History Month. Every February events happen throughout the country celebrating the diverse history of the LGBT community and this year we are putting on a series of exciting events! These include a public debate that relates to everyone, Should Gay Marriage Be Legal? This is a question that divides opinion within the gay, religious and heterosexual community. On the 16th of February you can have your say, this event will be run in a 'Question Time' format and there will be multiple opportunities for you to put forward your point of view.

Finally the last thing to say is get involved and follow this blog!

Thanks

Ken - LGBT President and RUSU LGBT Student Officer